• Sunday trip for anime manga merch!

    Yesterday, I accompanied my cousin around KLCC area to look for anime manga stores per her siblings’ requests and sightseeing. While I’m one of what folks would consider as “a homebody”, the fact that I am one is precisely why I actually enjoy accompanying my friends/family whenever they want to do sightseeing in KL. I learned a lot about new trends, places, and interesting food from them, hahah. I rarely go out, and when I do, seeing new things helps me reenergize myself. Even on places I frequently visited, I ended up noticed new things, thanks to them!

    Our first stop was Ombak KLCC mall, a brand-new mall next to Suria KLCC. The mall houses Galeri Petronas, previously located at Suria KLCC, and it has direct access from the MRT station Persiaran KLCC. We visited the Nintendo Pop-Up Store, and I got so chuffed seeing so many Animal Crossing: New Horizons merchs! They even have the The Roost-labeled coffee cup and saucer set and DAL mug!

    They also have ACNH saucepan!

    The store reminds me of Japan so much. A lot of plushies and merchandises from Nintendo’s games which gives you that huge impulse to spend money.

    We then went to Kinokuniya Suria KLCC. The bookstore is having an ongoing renovation and they are doing it per area instead of the whole store, so while we are still able to shop in the store, the space is quite tight. That said, I found The Family of Fourteen series in the Japanese section! I grew up with this series, so imagine my excitement seeing them!

    This is what I meant by discovering new things from familiar places, hahah. Had my cousin not doing the beeline to the store’s Japanese section, I won’t be able to found the series from my childhood!

    I also love this artist corner. It seemed like the manga-ka for the manga “Veil” visited Malaysia and had her signing session.

    Then we went to Lalaport Bukit Bintang City Centre, and I was so impressed seeing how they dedicated the second floor as Lalaport ACG (Anime Comics Game) Base with almost all stores are all about anime, comics, and games. Unfortunately, my phone’s battery dropped quite significantly halfway through our trip (6 years old iPhone with replaced battery, hahah!) so I didn’t take a lot of pics on the anime manga stores.

    Fortunately, our visit yesterday was when Lalaport ACG Base’s Creator Market opened too! I MET JOO ING FROM JOO ING ART AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.

    I love her so much oh my gosh I don’t know where to start. I first found her works from Kinokuniya Suria KLCC’s local artists area, and I have been buying the stickers and card holders ever since! When I saw her kiosk at Lalaport ACG Base’s Creator Market, I had to do a double take. It was in the afternoon and the place was quite crowded, but the artists were still doing their best showing their works. I don’t think I would ever forgot how happy one of them was, when my cousin bought stickers from her, and she was all smiling and giddy. Aaaa, my heartttt.

    These are the goodies I bought from Joo Ing Art.

    We also went to MyTown mall and visited Akihabara Station store. The store is not super huge, but they have really nice selection of anime manga merch, even those who are quite difficult to get. My cousin hunted for “Twisted Wonderland” merch, and she told me that this series is not available in Indonesia. We did find it at “Akihabara Station”, though, and the store even has it on a dedicated space!

    I really hope the Indonesian forest fires and the haze would go away soon. I, and alongside many people out there, would like to have our outdoor walk and sightseeing activities again.

  • Ads and personal image

    It all started with seeing my kids consuming their media. Unlike their predecessors, Gen Z and Alpha are now more curated and personalized than ever. My kids’ main source of entertainment is mostly streaming services: Netflix, Disney+, Youtube, you name it. They are rarely exposed to ads, and even if they did (through Youtube), it was a simple click of a “Skip” button or an immediate switch to a different video. Gone are the days of sprinting to the toilet when the ads appeared, or when kids had the same collective memory of certain brands and ads.

    From there. I noticed several things about my kids. First, they are not super fussy about their appearance, and second, they didn’t really know how to do some self-grooming things unless I told them how to do it (okay, I know how it sounds, but bear with me; I have more to say/write about this).

    The first observation: My kids are not super fussy about their appearance. This sounds like a good thing, and it is! At the same time, it’s kiiiiinda amusing for me that these two, a teen and a preteen, are not super worried about acne. Flashback to their mom’s teenage years: One acne could mean the end of the (social) world, because why? Because those Biore and Clean & Clear ads said so. The armpit area on your shirt got wet because your body is doing what it should, a.k.a. perspiration? Gasp, not on our watch, according to Rexona ads. In some ways, ads made us super conscious of how we looked and presented ourselves in public. Also, speaking of acne, remember Biore nose strips to pull those blackheads? When the ads aired, it seemed just overnight everyone, including their cats and uncles, was sporting nose strip on their nose, and I used to live in a small town in Central Java.

    The second observation: My kids didn’t really know how to do some self-grooming routine unless I told and showed them how to do it in detail. Yes, it’s my job, responsibility, and duty to teach them how to do it. Do you know how I learned the steps to apply a face wash properly on my face? Skincare ads. Biore anti-acne face wash. I honestly thought my kids knew about it, so when I gave Wira a brand-new Biore For Men face wash, I got so surprised when he asked me: “So how should I apply this?”

    “Eh? What do you mean?”

    “This. Thanks, ibu, for the face wash. How do I apply this?”

    (Wait. Whaaat. You didn’t know? Wait. OF COURSE HE DOESN’T KNOW. He never watched ads, let alone face wash ads!) “Uh. Sure, let me show you how to apply this…”

    The experience with my kids made me realize that, at least, a (major) chunk of Millennials were raised by the mass media. We learned some of our life skills and self-grooming based on what the media dictated to us, and I’m not sure whether it’s a good thing or not. Life skills, yay. Body image issue and unhealthy obsession with “looking perfect” because the media is showing a certain “qualities” of what being beautiful is, not yay.

  • On suggesting on “how to be mindful”

    In the world of FOMO and “first” or “pertamax” (do people still do that?), I decided to… comment on things after days, or weeks, or months, of thoughts. As Terry Pratchett said: “First sight, second thought”. The reason being: I can be really explosive when voicing out my opinions, be it orally or in writing, so… yeah.

    (Still no second thoughts/“take days or weeks to think on how you say it” on genAI and Palestine, though. As someone said on Threads: “Mereka yang masih ignorant sangat perkara genAI dan Palestine ni memang patut kena kecam”)

    More than a couple of days ago, a well-known Indonesian public figure got into a public backlash over her video on “staying mindful in the middle of bad news”. Her video on opinions, thoughts, and tips on stepping away from “the bad news” a.k.a. Reality, specifically realities in Indonesia, were met with pure hot-white visceral rage from the netizens. It didn’t help that she made the video while enjoying her western-style breakfast consisted of (IINM) cottage cheese, Omega-3 eggs, and Hass avocado, with the latter’s price could mark a minimum wage of a county or a village in Indonesia.

    Of course, there were, and still are, some thoughts and discussions on empathy, whether the excessive anger was due to the fact that this public figure is a woman as it seems like women tend to be blamed twice harsher than men/witch hunt, the risk of voicing oneself as a public figure with millions of followers, and communication skills (context and the likes. IDK, I’m not a formal student of communication, and a lot of my knowledge in communications and PR were from my years as a Marketing Management student with 4 credits of Marketing Communication class and my previous job as a PR consultant.)

    For me, at this point, it’s not about gender, although I won’t deny the fact that there have been some examples on how the criticism was harsher when the object was a woman/women. I always believe that it’s always on how you say things. Of course, there are words that I would say it harshly point blank, such as anything related with genAI, but girl, you don’t say, “you can just turn off your phone and take a walk in the Nature when things feel too much!” when the said Nature is literally blazing with fires that takes months to put out. You can’t tell people to turn off their phone and choose not to see bad news on the Internet when they actively living in it, breathing the air with >300 AQI reading with their babies dying. Especially not when you are a public figure and an Oxford AND Harvard graduate.

    Do I think the public’s anger could be directed better to the men in charge with their (stupid) decisions caused this whole mess? Absolutely. Do I also think that this public figure could do better? With her education and accolades displayed on her Wikipedia page, I honestly feel that she could do better. Hey, public figures are supposed to have some kind of PR training or PR staff, right?

  • Haze situation

    I just realized I haven’t blogged for quite some time and I have been wallowing in some kind of unhealthy-type of doomscrolling (isn’t doomscrolling always been unhealthy?) and putting myself in inexplicable rage on… everything. Mostly because of the haze caused by Indonesia’s forest fires (which, I believe, is not accidental. In Indonesian, we say it “dibakar, bukan terbakar”.)

    AirVisual screenshot

    Ugh.

    Because of the haze, we have been having a really limited time to do outdoor activities. Even going outside for work, school, or simply sightseeing the city became a health hazard. The demand for mask is increasing again, and I never imagined that I would pull out my LG Puricare mask, that obnoxious electrical gadget mask with literal air purifier on your face, for Ari to use on his way to the office. Bonus, that mask makes you sound like Darth Vader.

    Also, it’s scored 168 on AQI at my place, and it’s bad already. Imagine how it feels like at places where it’s nearby, or even at, the hotspots located. Some even hits >1000 AQI points. Screw this current Indonesia administration.

    In some ways, the despair feels like the pandemic all over again. That kind of “I’m so powerless”-feeling. You see the forest fires blazing for days, even weeks, then at the next scroll, you see that disgustingly stupid “1980s trend using genAI” trash. Right now, my consolation is reading this book:

    I got this book years ago, at a BookXcess store, and I just got my hands on it recently. I’m familiar with Terry Pratchett by name and some of his quotes, but I was in a… bad time when I first learned about him, as in, he was introduced to me by someone that I would rather not remember fondly. It took years until I finally made peace with it and opened this book, which I’m so glad I did that.

  • A bit of disclaimer: This package arrived last week, but I wanted to open it today, right on the date of Malaysia’s independence day.

    Also, another disclaimer: Just like the previous merch boxes from Bilabila, this is something they did out of their goodwill and I’m not being paid for this. They don’t even asked me to post or publish anything at all and our DMs always started with “I’m not an influencer or Key Opinion Leader (KOL), why would you even sending goodie box to meeeeeeeee” and a back-and-forth replies of “this is our thanks for your support!” and “what do you mean “thank you for your support”, HOW ELSE AM I GOING TO GET MY HERBAL TEA AND RICE CRACKERS FIX?”

    Today is Malaysia’s independence day (August 31), and Bilabila is celebrating it with their own usual creative and awesome way. I’m so happy seeing a business like Bilabila supporting their local artists. The co-founder of Bilabila, Jing Lee, is a staunch supporter of the local artists and local businesses, especially the non-mainstream ones. She also has been publicly shown her distaste on genAI and its “results”, which, yessssss ✨

    First off, I love the packaging idea! It also reminds me that I need to do my weekly grocery run, hahah!

    The team had been having a pop-up mart at GMBB, which ended today. I’m actually curious about GMBB; yes, it’s “just another mall”, but GMBB has been a creative hub for a lot of local artists, including holding workshops, events, and board games sessions. I’m going to squeeze some time during the weekdays to see what’s up there.

    I love how they also gave a shout out to their previous artists for Chinese New Year and Hari Raya. I feel it’s really sweet, and it gives a nice boost of visibility for these artists.

    It’s so cool to see THREE artworks in one package! I feel like a little kid in a candy store, hahah. Oooooh, this is so cool! Oh, I love the color palette on this!

    Thank you again, Bilabila, for the cute merch! I have been eyeing the bottle cap pins, and I feel so lucky I got it! Selamat Hari Merdeka, Malaysia!

    The artists’ Instagram account:

    • @itsmonkiddo
    • @lukistulis
    • @rojakdoodle

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