
Eid Mubarak, friends!



not a food blog

At this point, many more people are more aware of Ramadan and what it entails; no eating and no drinking from sunrise to sunset.

The problem is that not everyone knows Ramadan’s massive effect on Muslim-majority countries, such as Malaysia or Indonesia. The latter is mainly on the island of Java.
This post is prompted by a couple of tourists who asked the restaurant staff, “… how much longer?” at the place where we had our iftar (breaking the fast) just now.
This post has no way of criticizing tourists or folks who might not know how Ramadan is in Indonesia and Malaysia. I wrote this post so you, my friends, know what to expect when visiting those two countries during the holiest month of the Islamic calendar. You can read what Ramadan is for more details before we jump to the next section ?

Q1. “How do I know that I’m visiting Indonesia/Malaysia during Ramadan?”
Manual way: Grab your calendar, and check if it has “Eid al-Fitr” on it. Note the date of the Eid. Then, check the exact date of the previous month (or roughly 29-31 days before.) Those one whole month right before Eid is Ramadan.
Instant way: Type on Google: “Ramadan 20XX” (the year). The date you get will be the predicted date of the start of Ramadan. “Predicted” because the Islamic calendar is lunar, and it relies on lunar sightings.
Q2. “I’m here in Indonesia/Malaysia, and apparently, it’s Ramadan. I want to grab dinner, and I found EVERYWHERE is packed! What happened?”
Welcome to iftar, a.k.a. The time of breaking the fast. This is what happened to the tourists I saw at Suria KLCC earlier.
During Ramadan, restaurants and cafés usually quiet and empty during the day. However, come afternoon, you will see some places picking up.
In Kuala Lumpur, we usually break our fast at 7:25 PM-ish. Restaurants and cafés start to fill in as early as 6 PM. You would see patrons beginning to sit and order their food.
But wait. They didn’t touch the food, even when it was already served. Why? We are waiting for the iftar.
Once iftar comes — you can hear the sound of azan (call for prayer) — then, and only then, everyone can eat.
So, no. No “how much longer?” Everyone in the restaurant is eating at the same time. You couldn’t expect them to start eating at different times, just like when the restaurant operates regularly.
The tips:
Have a reservation for your spot
During Ramadan, restaurants and cafés are packed during dinnertime. If you must have dinner at restaurants or cafés, plan ahead and reserve the place waaaay earlier. Find the restaurant’s number on Google and call them to book a place, or go to the restaurant/café in the noontime and reserve a table for the evening.
You might notice reservations are unnecessary for restaurants serving pork/lard. Pork/lard is considered haram (forbidden/not allowed) in Islam, so there is a small chance restaurant serving pork/lard will be packed during iftar time. However, it’s good to plan ahead, too, because folks with religions and beliefs outside Islam might think the same as you are, and they decided to visit the restaurant during dinnertime, which resulted in an equally crowded place.
Have an early dinner
This is the more leisurely approach, although it might be tricky for folks with fixed meal times. When we arrived at the restaurant, a couple of patrons had their dinner, and they finished right before the Ramadan crowd poured in.
Ensure you are aware of iftar time to have enough time to eat. You can Google this information or ask the restaurant staff.
Be flexible: Get yourself some meals from convenience store or street food vendors
While this might not be the most glamorous place, this is one of the most surefire ways to get your dinner. Indonesia and Malaysia have many convenience stores; 7-Eleven, FamilyMart, Lawson’s, Alfamart, Indomaret, and millions more options on street food vendors. If you feel adventurous and you have Norit at your disposal, you can grab yourself some local delicacies and eat them on the spot by the street. You can also grab some rice boxes or meal-on-the-go from the convenience store and ask the staff to reheat it.
And most importantly, have fun and enjoy your trip!
Ramadan is one of the holiest months in the Islamic calendar. While Ramadan is all about abstaining from eating and drinking during the day, you will see the month’s excitement and festivities shown everywhere. If you are lucky, you could even visit Bazaar Ramadan, where food and beverage vendors sell delicacies and refreshments as early as 4 PM.


I’ve been seeing my friends using Uni Posca and I’m intrigued. Then, I just realized they are not available here in Malaysia, at least not in retail-wise. I had to order it online from a trading company specializing in stationeries.
I love using them, and I think it would be the same feelings when painting using gouache, yeah? My only gripe, though, is this.

I’m not sure if that’s expected or that piling caused by the marker and the paper. I’m using Moleskine sketchbook (yeah, yeah, I know…) so I’m thinking of doing another test on a more decent drawing/painting paper.
I love how “immovable” it is. You can literally put a different color on top of each layer and it won’t budge.


I combined the marker with my Uni Sketch Art Marker, and I love how they complement each others.

I finally got myself a Copic set, and I opened them just a couple of days ago.
I learned to acquaint myself with Copic’s behavior and style. Copic colors are generally more muted and softer, while my Unicorn Art Marker has a more vivid color which gives a really nice variations.

This pond drawing is one of the firsts. I started the drawing annoyed because Copic LOOKED too dry for me. I spent coloring the water with a stream of curses left and right, but as I added more details and the sky blue color from Unicorn, it looked pretty great.
The second one is the usual house drawing.

The colors were flat and weird. At first, I decided to ditch the drawing. But then I revisited it again on the next day and used bold lineart as I’m feeling more comfortable with it. I’m pretty happy with how it looks like now.
As for the latest, it’s actually a drawing of my friend: Anien.
I really like her pose there, so I decided to illustrate it.



I am now thinking of buying a Copic set. Unicorn Sketch marker set is great, but the colors are too vivid and too neon to my likings. I’m looking for muted gray-ish colors, and from what I see, it seems like Copic provides such colors.


Earlier today, we went to the hospital for Rey’s doctor appointment. For the past week, Rey has been having cough, sneezes, and mild fever. We usually let the illness on its own for three days along with some paracetamol and vitamins since that’s how virus usually works. The illness, however, stuck for more than three days, so we decided to check it with the doctor.
What we didn’t predict was Rey seeing the doctor appointment as an opportunity to dress up.

Flower sunglasses, check. Pretty blue dress, check. Unicorn sling bag, check.
Sometimes I wonder about children’s ability to endure illness.

There are good books, and there are books that made you react like this.


From what I can remember, there were two books that I have read in my life which make me react exactly like how I illustrated above.
“Maus” (Art Spiegelman) and “The Handmaid’s Tales” (Margaret Atwood).
And now, it comes down to three books: “If Anything Happens I Love You” (Will McCormack, Michael Govier, Youngran Nho)
And no, the books are not not good. The books are fantastic, emotional, and they exude such strength which pulled you in and you are left with uneasiness on your gut because you know, you know, how the stories are not that far from our reality. You are faced with letters and pictures in front of you telling the truth and the horror, and you feel nothing but the immense urge to throw and slam the book down because you know the words inside it stepped a little bit too close for comfort.
I was in Kinokuniya Suria KLCC when I saw the book “If Anything Happens I Love You” at the lower shelf in Young Adult section. Children’s and Young Adult’s book section are my favorite area. “When the story is too difficult and too much for adults, make it for children,” some said that. Well, actually Guillermo del Toro said that in an interview with a Tiktok user. I forgot the link, and Tiktok UI/UX is a nightmare.
The book started with death.
Everyone talks about the day I died, which is a shame.
I love how the book does not glossed over life and death, and it just — wham — straight to the point. The book, however, celebrates life in all its glory through the eyes of death and talks about grief. At least that’s what I can take as a summary between me trying not to do ugly crying at the bookstore and having my eyes blurred from the tears.
It’s a story about a little girl named Rose. Rose had a wonderful family — her mother, her father, and her cat named Arnold. Math was her least favorite subject but her Math teacher, Ms. Rivera, was her favorite teacher.
Then one day, Rose died.
I was hoping they were fireworks, and then we realized what they were.
That’s when… … All the curses popped out inside my mind, you know. All the expletives went like a flood. Something bubbled, and I almost threw up.
I want to throw this book because it’s that good. 10000000/10. Must read.